Mindfulness

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Live streamed on 12th April 2015

JON KABAT – ZINN – Interview on SupersoulSunday live streamed on 12 April 201

“Oprah and Jon Kabat-Zinn, PhD, offer an introduction to mindfulness meditation and the benefits it can bring to our everyday lives”


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He entered Harvard Univerity at age 16. 

He heals chronic illness through practice of mindfulness.  Book  – Mindfulness for beginners  is his latest book.

He sees mindfulness as a love affair with life, with reality and imaginative, with the beauty of your own being and with the world. 

What does it mean to cultivate mindfulness?

It is a way of having a relationship with your life, as we are alive for only this moment, the past is memory and over and the future has not come.  Most time we obsess about the future and think about the past.  So mindfulness is about paying attention to the present moment and the awareness that comes with paying attention.  It is purposeful.  It is a form of meditation.  It is an easier glide path.  Most people want to be in the present moment, and they think they are just breathing and nothing is not happening.  Yet they are present which is equal to awareness.  The simple way to think of it is it is just a simple practice of talking and being present at the moment and being awake and willing to be in that moment t the degree that they can. 

E.g when cooking just stir the pot. It has indefinite depth  in it.  The more you let that run in you the more it transform who you are.  To be mindful means being fully in the moment of now, in  awareness. (eg knowing that you are having a conversation).

Your kids know when you are present and there is no greater gift than being there for them.  Parent pay lip service and they know that and can feel when you are present and there is no greater gift than being present for them. 

PRACTICING MINDFULNESS

To calm down take deep breath – break

Meditation is not a weird thing, there are many misinterpretation about what it is eg becoming a zombie, cabbage.    It is about being your-self and knowing something about who you are.  You can be yourself 24 hours.  Helps you know how you are out of your way most times.

 

It about knowing how we are out of our way as we take life for granted.  During the hunter gathering there was more mindfulness. 

Distruction is due to the ever increasing pace of everything.

How do we balance out being and doing?.    Mindness is about finding your own way and finindig your own longing, Fnd your own way, listen to your heart and to your yearning.  What we are trying to do if life matters, it is more than you can and more than you can think.  Thinking only takes us a certain far and the body is left out in a certain position with lack of wisdom.  The world is getting busier and compounded by stuff and the only way to get out of it is to get mindfulness.

He gives people homework and tell them mindfulness is a practice eg:

Mindfulness is a practice.  Eg when you are in the shower check  if you are in the shower – feeling in the water etc or you are in the future or in the past.  The more you realize am in the shower and I am in the shower it takes a fraction to get your awareness.  If you are worried about how things are going to be that day it is ok knowing is enough, it is awareness and laugh about it. 

How does mindfulness help your pain.

It empowers you to investigate your experiences in your own mind and get to know the emotional experience of it.  It is finding if there is something one can do for themselves.  It is finding out where the pain is and welcoming it as much as you don’t want to. It is knowing that you rare and are more than your pain and that you can you can leave with it or accommodate it.

It relieves stress

Stress is wanting the current moment to be something which is not.  The moment can only be what it is now.  Take a break and accept the moment as it is.  People don’t think not being accepted  mean – you can either stress yourself out.  Listen how it works in your body  or think -  even if you are late you can relax as it is not the end of the world.  Accept and do not resign to the situation, and find relieve.  It is wisdom, there is stillness as oopposed to being hyper about all.  This is what we crave and we are yearning for a moment of well being.  

We are all seeking to be at that peaceful place which you can be 24/7 where ever you are.  As long as you are breathing, there is more right with you than what is wrong.  As long as you are living there is more right with you than is wrong with you.  Lett he doctors worry .  Pour energy to what is right with you.  Instead of sustaining it for a day capture it brief moment per day.  When picking your child from school be present there.  If cooking be there and cook.   So that you are with who you are and life becomes a meditation.

If you miss looking into your child in the eyes and if you miss it who will you blame it for?.  The perfect moment is this one.  Do what you have to do now as you might miss it as one time we will die.

If you start to befriend your mind and the metaphor  of the ocean it is always wavy or harricanne or waves, strorm but it you drop down the ocean.  It is calm.  Drop down underneath your anger, anxiety and you find the alm and it is what is connected to all of us.  Drop down beneath.   It invites compassion,

Most of the time we are out of our awareness and heart,

Most times we think we know who we are but we don’t.  How much is the story about how your heart or at its happiest is. We write how unhappy we are , how much money we need it may be true. But there is not story about how beautiful, radient we are.  Are we designed to judge ourselves negatively.  It has to do with our upbrining and education.  We are now taught about how to be but about what we get and acuire.  And hence we get into anxiety.  Depressive rumination and deeps you into a dark nothing and it becomes a pattern and you can write yourself a restraining order when you touch them in awareness and stop them, when you realize you are not your thoughts but you are the awareness of your thoughts.

source:

www.oprah.com/ -livestreamed 12 April 2015