Lifeskills on "Conscious parenting" by Dr Shefali. She works with families around the world and says the time to awaken is now...We need to see our childlren as equals.
A conscious parent understands the child has been called to show the parent where they have to grow. " bringing consciousness", awareness and spirituality.
The relationship call you to the trigger of your ego. " I will be the best mother, father..." they show us a mirror of ourselves.
As a parent you realise you are parenting a spirit in its own miniture. We want them to represent the best of our selves.
the self we havent even become. that we havent fulfiled and put the burden on them. eg see me the way i have never been seen. We project that which we hope for ourselves. As we have been trained in the past.
We come from a state to scarcity and put into our children and it divorces them from their own becoming.
Parenting is a challenging task. It is the being and the doing. (multifacated) but you realise, you have to become into the being which the two colide.
It is no surprise we fail to tune into our childrens essence. as we barely listen to ourselves. We betra our inner selves. We believe we re incomplete and pass this legacy to our childrlen.
Lifeskills 2: on "Are parents, parenting unconsciously?" -live stream -Own interview with Dr Shefali, today.
"traditionally parents have been governing from top to down" and we think it is a hierachy. is there note
this is where the ego and become intermiggled. yes we are incontrol to protect but to get to their essence we have to drop the hierachy. Drop the superiority, by not hiding behind the ego we are able to reach them. Who them is in charge? Old paradiam. false believe this is. we continue to see the dysfunction. Most parents are parenting unconsciously. But we are all strivign to reach consciousness. with every argument you have an opportunity to step into your ego and control your dominance or look within and ask wht is being trigger inme. what about me is the child triggering now, how about my childhood is being triggered. All relationships to this. We have a duty then to look at our issues and free our chldren form the burden of fixing us.
Out of control kids - this approach is a hands on constant approach beign in full attunement of your parenthood. so you are not fixing controoking you are alighing to atune and not project your inadequacies to the child.
You create the condition for the child to thrive not to control them. Errors kids do you understand what you are being told beyond the surface, you dont see it as ego or as making you look bad ie see what you have done. as we are projecting what we want others to see us as
Lifeskill 3 : on "Straight A's". continued...
We need to redefine success... We shd not emphasise on grading, if we do they loose the magic of the process. It is the process we care about. Schools are based on who gets the grades. schools have become a competiion. shchools puts presures but it is our energy we need to think do we need to go on with this. and tell them that they can be successfu if they are atuned to thier self being..
She uses the grades as markers of what the teacher wanted and it could be caused by many things, failure of being in the moment. Ask did you do your best then if hey showed up to their best consciousness, then that is sufficient, as no more..
If a child is not attuned to their consciousness,
we bit kids down to perfection, valid as learners, as we make them hate the process of learning. Ask parents what is your goal for the child. i want them to be happy parents say..
wehn we put success as riches, high status etc when those pillars fall one is not happy anymore.
mistakes of parents.
they put attention to electronics devices in kids. enter the kids space. we are exhausted and are involved in ego agendas. we stop entering the moment. they manifest that betrayal and engage in other things to fill that space.
Are we to blame of the kids behavour. it is no ones faults eg drugs, see it as a call to entere the deep self and see what we missed on the way where the child called for help.
We expect our kids to live our dreams:
Her ego - her kid tells her you will not enter my space. she surrenders and honors as she knows herself better. help kids rise.
Lifeskill 5: How do we practice..."conscious parenting" (live...errors to be corrected later....)
"BEING" WITH YOUR CHILD - ENTERING INTO THE SPACE OF ALIGNING YOUR CHILDS PRESENCE
We like fixing, it is a call to enter our inner self. we are scared to entere our inner self. How then do we meet the inner side of our children when we are scared of our own?
Labelled - black sheet - sensitive child - obsorbs the negative energy of the family.
they send he message i will keep falling apart. parents believe they have a bad child - i have a bad one they believe that than see it is a problem in them. every manifestation is of where we need to grow.
We cannot expect our kids to grow spiritually than we are willing to ourselves. I wish my child was great in something, but are you.
work on it yourselves first.
its in the morning brushing their teeth thes emoments are the ones that call for connection. instead we take themto school and notice anything.
parent-child is a connection of spirits. if you look at a child essesnse as a bittging of spirti, that is unique,
CHILDREN -PROPHETS -
yOUR CHILDREN ARE NOT YOUR CHILDREN, THEY AE SONS AND DAUGHTERS OF LIVES ON YOU. THEY COME THROU YOU BUT NOT FROM YOU AND ALTHEOURGH THEY AE WITH YOU THEY DONT BELONG TO YOU, LOVE THEM AND NOT GIVE THEMTHOUGHTS THEY HAVE THEIR THOUGHTS YOU MAY DRESS THEIR BODIES BUT NOT THERI SOULS, WHTICH YOU CANNOT VISITI. YOU ARE THE BOWS YOUR CHILDS ARROW ARE SENT FROM.
Watch the video: courtesy - OWN Networks
Conscious-Parenting
A conscious parent understands the child has been called to show the parent where they have to grow. " bringing consciousness", awareness and spirituality.
The relationship call you to the trigger of your ego. " I will be the best mother, father..." they show us a mirror of ourselves.
As a parent you realise you are parenting a spirit in its own miniture. We want them to represent the best of our selves.
the self we havent even become. that we havent fulfiled and put the burden on them. eg see me the way i have never been seen. We project that which we hope for ourselves. As we have been trained in the past.
We come from a state to scarcity and put into our children and it divorces them from their own becoming.
Parenting is a challenging task. It is the being and the doing. (multifacated) but you realise, you have to become into the being which the two colide.
It is no surprise we fail to tune into our childrens essence. as we barely listen to ourselves. We betra our inner selves. We believe we re incomplete and pass this legacy to our childrlen.
Lifeskills 2: on "Are parents, parenting unconsciously?" -live stream -Own interview with Dr Shefali, today.
"traditionally parents have been governing from top to down" and we think it is a hierachy. is there note
this is where the ego and become intermiggled. yes we are incontrol to protect but to get to their essence we have to drop the hierachy. Drop the superiority, by not hiding behind the ego we are able to reach them. Who them is in charge? Old paradiam. false believe this is. we continue to see the dysfunction. Most parents are parenting unconsciously. But we are all strivign to reach consciousness. with every argument you have an opportunity to step into your ego and control your dominance or look within and ask wht is being trigger inme. what about me is the child triggering now, how about my childhood is being triggered. All relationships to this. We have a duty then to look at our issues and free our chldren form the burden of fixing us.
Out of control kids - this approach is a hands on constant approach beign in full attunement of your parenthood. so you are not fixing controoking you are alighing to atune and not project your inadequacies to the child.
You create the condition for the child to thrive not to control them. Errors kids do you understand what you are being told beyond the surface, you dont see it as ego or as making you look bad ie see what you have done. as we are projecting what we want others to see us as
Lifeskill 3 : on "Straight A's". continued...
We need to redefine success... We shd not emphasise on grading, if we do they loose the magic of the process. It is the process we care about. Schools are based on who gets the grades. schools have become a competiion. shchools puts presures but it is our energy we need to think do we need to go on with this. and tell them that they can be successfu if they are atuned to thier self being..
She uses the grades as markers of what the teacher wanted and it could be caused by many things, failure of being in the moment. Ask did you do your best then if hey showed up to their best consciousness, then that is sufficient, as no more..
If a child is not attuned to their consciousness,
we bit kids down to perfection, valid as learners, as we make them hate the process of learning. Ask parents what is your goal for the child. i want them to be happy parents say..
wehn we put success as riches, high status etc when those pillars fall one is not happy anymore.
mistakes of parents.
they put attention to electronics devices in kids. enter the kids space. we are exhausted and are involved in ego agendas. we stop entering the moment. they manifest that betrayal and engage in other things to fill that space.
Are we to blame of the kids behavour. it is no ones faults eg drugs, see it as a call to entere the deep self and see what we missed on the way where the child called for help.
We expect our kids to live our dreams:
Her ego - her kid tells her you will not enter my space. she surrenders and honors as she knows herself better. help kids rise.
Lifeskill 5: How do we practice..."conscious parenting" (live...errors to be corrected later....)
"BEING" WITH YOUR CHILD - ENTERING INTO THE SPACE OF ALIGNING YOUR CHILDS PRESENCE
We like fixing, it is a call to enter our inner self. we are scared to entere our inner self. How then do we meet the inner side of our children when we are scared of our own?
Labelled - black sheet - sensitive child - obsorbs the negative energy of the family.
they send he message i will keep falling apart. parents believe they have a bad child - i have a bad one they believe that than see it is a problem in them. every manifestation is of where we need to grow.
We cannot expect our kids to grow spiritually than we are willing to ourselves. I wish my child was great in something, but are you.
work on it yourselves first.
its in the morning brushing their teeth thes emoments are the ones that call for connection. instead we take themto school and notice anything.
parent-child is a connection of spirits. if you look at a child essesnse as a bittging of spirti, that is unique,
CHILDREN -PROPHETS -
yOUR CHILDREN ARE NOT YOUR CHILDREN, THEY AE SONS AND DAUGHTERS OF LIVES ON YOU. THEY COME THROU YOU BUT NOT FROM YOU AND ALTHEOURGH THEY AE WITH YOU THEY DONT BELONG TO YOU, LOVE THEM AND NOT GIVE THEMTHOUGHTS THEY HAVE THEIR THOUGHTS YOU MAY DRESS THEIR BODIES BUT NOT THERI SOULS, WHTICH YOU CANNOT VISITI. YOU ARE THE BOWS YOUR CHILDS ARROW ARE SENT FROM.
Watch the video: courtesy - OWN Networks
Conscious-Parenting